August 29 2014, 8pm
Oh yeah, I think I figured out why the stupid car stickers praising their child bothers me: you are, essentially, placing your child on a pedestal, using them as some sort of trophy. You may claim to be proud of their accomplishments, and I’m sure some parents are, but is it /the kid’s/ accomplishment or is it /your own/ accomplishment? i.e. does your child need to be paraded around as a way of saying “look at my child; I raised them so well; my child is better than yours; I am proud of having raised this child because that shows how accomplished I am as a parent.”
idk I started rambling here but basically it’s putting the child on a pedestal.
The kid’s now likely to either A) become really pretentious, B) get really stressed about failing, or C) a combination of both. Goodness knows it’s bad enough without adding some shitty bumper sticker to the mix.
Those “in memory” stickers are sort of obnoxious too.
someone finally said what I keep feeling every damn time I see “MY CHILD IS AN HONOR STUDENT” bumper sticker.
My absolute favorite is “MY CHILD HAS PERFECT ATTENDANCE AT -their school-” LIKE WHOOP DE fuckin DOO ARE YOU PRAISING THEM FOR NOT GETTING SICK AND/OR GOING TO SCHOOL SICK? GG
August 29 2014, 7pm
Goober still isn’t eating ;_; I’m gonna try messing with her tank temp. Maybe it’s just too cold. She did, however, show a little interest…but then it’s always the same: Coil away scared and crawl around like a boop.
So, Booger gets a snack. I’m blessed to have a corn snake that will never turn her nose up at food. Ever *_*
August 29 2014, 12am
Pokémon Survey #1: Bold What’s True!
- I started with the anime
- I started with the games
- My first starter was a water type
- I still remember Team Rocket’s first motto
- I care for my Pokémon
- The only shiny I’ve ever had is the red gyarados from HG/SS
- I’m the only one in my family who likes Pokémon
- Eeveelutions aren’t that cool
- Someone introduced me to Pokémon
- I have at least one thing with Pokémon stickers on it
- I bought a 3DS just because of Pokémon
- I honestly don’t know who Junichi Masuda is
- I used to pretend that animals were Pokémon
- I’ve read the manga at least once
- Once I beat the Champion, I never touch the game anymore
- Once in my life, I got Pokémon stuff as birthday gift
- I found/hatched a shiny today
- Milotic is the most beautiful Pokémon in the world
- I like to think that I’m good at battling but I never battle that one person because I think they’re better than me
- I haven’t watched all of the movies
- I have Pokémon Y
- My last starter was a fire type
- I beat Whitney in the first try
- I still watch the anime
- I actually have a pet named after a Pokémon
- Team Magma rules
- Nah, Team Aqua is better
- Smogon needs to stop banning everything
- I don’t even know what Smogon is
- I like Latios over Latias
- I don’t nickname my Pokémon
- I have more than 10 shinies
- I believe in Gengar and Clefable’s theory
- N is so irrelevant now
- I never liked N that much anyway
- I think about how cool my life would be be if Pokémon were real
- Arcanine needs a Mega Evolution
- I know the japanese name of at least 5 Pokémon
I’ve never had a Pikachuif you played yellow you were forced to have Pikachu T_T
- I like Red over Ash
- I killed a legendary on purpose
- I have a Pokémon plush
- I liek Mudkipz
- Flygon should be part bug
- I’d be 80 and I’d still like Pokémon
- I swear I don’t understand the Pokemon trading card game
- I own every single Pokémon game, like, all of them, every single one.
- If Pokémon were real, I would make a blog just to post about my journey.
- Whimsicott or Lilligant
- I have a Pokémon tattoo
August 26 2014, 5pm
I don't think reptiles are meant to be pets. They are wild animals and dont provide the same levels that dogs and cats do. Can you use a snake as a therapy amimal? No.
To add to this, I have TERRIBLE anxiety and the calming effects handling snakes provides me with are what prevents me from having to take anti-anxiety medication. They can be fantastic therapy animals.
Agreed. If I’m near a panic attack taking out any of my snakes sends it away almost immediately.
Reptiles can make incredible therapy animals, especially for people with allergies to fur. I’ve brought Ngarehu with me to my Mom’s hospice and the residents there were active and interested in learning more about him. He was able to make connections to people who weren’t able to connect to an active and bouncy puppy.
Personally, I find him very soothing to handle as well. In public, when I feel like I’m on the brink of an anxiety attack, I can put my hand on him and remind myself why I’m outside. He’s the best emotional support animal I could have asked for. This is perfect for me since most anti-anxiety meds just put me to sleep.
Reptiles don’t experience emotions like us, but that’s ok. Sometimes it’s really nice to just slow down and pat a lizard or a snake.
Reptiles can’t be used as therapy animals? I think the NHS would have something to say about that;
Okay. So I can almost guarantee that you wouldn’t say this about someone’s cute little aquatic turtle or someone’s fish or a tree frog. I’m willing to bet any amount of money that this comes from bias towards snakes because of your ignorant misconceptions. It’s okay to not understand an animal or be afraid of it. It’s not okay to tell me that I’m less deserving of my animals because of your personal issues with them.
As far as them being therapy animals goes, I can and will say that the most calming thing I have the ability to do at home is sit down with olly on my stomach or my lap and run my hands gently down him, which he doesn’t mind at all. My snakes have the ability to let me de-compress in only a few minutes when I’m stressed just by letting me touch them.
People find their own personal therapy jn different ways. Some people do best with therapy dogs and whatnot, some people use sensory objects, some people go on walks, I handle my snakes.
A London clinic is the first to use reptiles to help patients overcome low self-worth and “communication issues”.
The Huntercombe hospital in Roehampton has enlisted Angel, a seven-year-old 5ft corn snake, in group sessions where patients can touch, feed and care for her.
The majority of its 38 patients are referred by the NHS for treatment for addictions and eating disorders.
Louise Helsdown, the occupational therapist running the programme, said snakes were a “fantastic aid” in helping people recover from mental health problems.
My reptiles, especially snakes, are my therapy and my dogs are the most stressful and unrewarding things in my life and I try every day not to complain about them.
Also no, a snake doesn’t require the same level of care as a dog or cat, in fact, it requires infinitely less. All you have to do is learn a little first. Just because it’s conventional for everybody to learn how to take care of dogs because they grew up with them also doesn’t mean you know how to care for a dog properly, like fucking hell I’ve only met a few truly well adjusted, well behaved, actually 100% healthy dogs in my entire life.
Seconding all this. My snakes have helped me through a lot of rough spots and are perfect for my lifestyle. They are more enjoyable and stress-reducing than any needy, over-affectionate mammal.
Reblogging because although I don’t have a lot of anxiety or mental issues, some of my followers might, and I highly recommend a scootersnek for any of your relaxing needs.
Honestly, nothing is more soothing than coming home from a hectic day of work, laying on the floor, and having a slithery smooth gentle slow and adorable snake on your tummy.
Except Booger. She’s cray cray.
August 26 2014, 5pm
POKEMON FANDOM RIGHT NOW
fandom: WOAH WE HOPE THEY GIVE US SOMETHING GOOD
gamefreak: Look we have that Pokemon fighting game you always asked for…
fandom: OH GOD HYPE HYPE HYPE
gamefreak: ..for Arcade Machines only in Japan. Release 2015.
fandom outside of japan: